The Secret Rescue Fantasy Of Strong Women Raised By Narcissists

  How smart, capable women end up living in their heads with an imaginary prince while staying in very real pain If you are an emotionally intelligent, self-supporting woman who has survived narcissistic abuse, you

By |2025-11-24T13:31:14-08:00November 24th, 2025|Education, Narcissistic Abuse, Narcissistic Parent|0 Comments

When Their Post Split Glow Up Makes You Doubt Yourself

When Their Post-Split Glow-Up Makes You Doubt Yourself When they finally “change” after you are gone You cut contact or pull way back. You are exhausted, grieving, trying to remember how to breathe. Then you hear:

By |2025-11-16T21:05:58-08:00November 16th, 2025|Education, Narcissistic Abuse, Narcissistic Parent|0 Comments

Reality Check for Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse: Questions to Break the Spell

Trauma bonding can feel like a magic trick you did not sign up for. Your brain grabs onto crumbs and calls it a meal. Your body mistakes adrenaline for love. Hope feels like proof. None

By |2025-10-29T18:47:01-07:00October 29th, 2025|Education, Narcissist, Narcissistic Abuse|0 Comments

The Next Generation of Narcissistic Behavior: Is Your Child Acting Like Your Ex?

I was chatting with a friend who, like me, has been in a relationship with a narcissistic partner. We were laughing about how our kids like to comment on our choices in partners and how maybe

By |2025-10-20T20:27:42-07:00October 20th, 2025|Education, Narcissist, Narcissistic Abuse|0 Comments

When the Narcissist Sounds Heartbroken (But Isn’t)

Many survivors of narcissistic abuse ask me a version of the same question: “Why does my partner seem like the best friend to everyone else, always there for coworkers, neighbors, or buddies but when I was

By |2025-10-13T12:48:39-07:00September 6th, 2025|Education, Narcissist, Narcissistic Abuse|0 Comments

Limerence and Narcissistic Abuse: Why Obsession Isn’t Love

When you’ve lived through narcissistic abuse, the word love often feels complicated. Survivors describe early relationships with narcissists as intoxicating like nothing they’ve ever felt before. But in psychology, we have a name for this kind

By |2025-10-13T12:49:42-07:00September 1st, 2025|Education, Narcissist, Narcissistic Abuse|0 Comments

Are you An Empath? (You Probably Aren’t Just Attracting Narcissists)

Do You Consider Yourself an Empath? You Probably Aren’t Just Attracting Narcissists. If you’ve ever identified as an empath, chances are you’ve been told some version of this: “Empaths attract narcissists.” And while there’s some

By |2025-10-13T12:49:56-07:00August 23rd, 2025|Abuse, Empath, Narcissistic Abuse|0 Comments

Why Can’t I Stop Thinking About It? Understanding Rumination After Narcissistic Abuse

Have you ever found yourself stuck in the same mental loop? Replaying arguments. Rewriting your responses. Questioning what really happened. Searching for the moment it all went wrong. This isn’t just overthinking. This is rumination. And

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